Hope; November 7, 2021

Posted on November 10, 2021 by jgarrott

1 Peter 3:15 But in your hearts set apart Christ as Lord. Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.

I have quoted this verse countless times in preaching and talking with people about evangelism. The most effective evangelism isn’t when you decide to evangelize somebody, but when their observation of you and your lifestyle prompts them to ask you about it. Life in Christ is indeed incredibly rich in ways that the world cannot touch, and the more people become aware of that, the more they will desire it for themselves. The specific element of that that Peter mentions here is hope. Frankly, optimism is attractive! It has also been shown that hope or the lack of it is a major factor in patient survival in a wide variety of diseases. The thing about hope in Christ is that it isn’t dependent on how things turn out here, because it includes eternity with Him. We call someone who is unfailingly optimistic a “Pollyanna,” often meaning that they fail to recognize reality, but Christ-centered hope is very realistic, saying, “I may die a horrible death, but that is a minor detail compared to eternity with my Lord.” The devil does all he can to steal our peace and joy, but when we have an eternal perspective, he can’t do that. Paul put it this way: “For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all.” (2 Corinthians 4:17) When we have that assurance, people around us will want it too. However, we cannot have it without what Peter says in the first part of this verse: living with Jesus as your Lord. If we are using Christianity as window dressing, just doing our own thing, we certainly won’t have an attractive, eternal hope, and our lives will be no different from those around us.

I have commented several times over the past few years in particular that if I didn’t have faith I would give up hope. The world is a mess indeed! However, it’s been over 20 years since the Lord assured me personally that He’s not happy about the current state of things either, but that He’s got the perfect end game set up. In the US, recent elections and court cases have given a lot of people hope they didn’t have before, but such hope is by definition temporal, for the here and now. Such hope is nice and isn’t to be discounted, but it can’t hold a candle to eternal hope in Christ. In recent years I have been very politically involved, at least emotionally, but I must never let my priorities get reversed. Things on earth are important only to the degree that they help or hinder people getting into and maintaining a right relationship with their Creator, who loved them so much He sent His Son to be their Savior and die in their place. People will never have eternal hope until they know and believe that, so my task is, as Peter said, to be available to share that marvelous truth with anyone at any time, for their salvation and God’s glory.

Father, thank You for this reminder. Thank You for the approaching Christmas season. Every year I somewhat dread it because of all the busyness, but all of those events are opportunities to share the hope that is in Christ. Help me not draw back from any of it, but rejoice to be Your messenger, drawing many to repentance and faith, for their salvation and Your glory. Thank You. Hallelujah!

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Marriage; November 6, 2021

Posted on November 10, 2021 by jgarrott

1 Peter 3:7 Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers.

Since I have a wife who beautifully fulfills the first six verses of this chapter, my attention naturally goes to this verse. Some women are offended by it, (as they are by most of the first six verses too) especially by the word, “weaker.” The thing is, it’s a simple matter of physiology that men have more muscle mass than women, and have a few other mechanical advantages as well. That’s why it’s so manifestly wrong to allow gender-confused males to compete against females in sports: hormones aside, they have too much natural advantage. In other ways, such as pain tolerance and the like, women can often be the “stronger,” but that’s not what Peter is talking about. Some people are offended by the very idea that people can be different but equal, but such an attitude is very sad and never leads to genuine happiness and harmony. As Peter says right here, if the husband fails to see his wife as his equal in inheriting the grace of God, then his prayers aren’t going to go very far! We are horrified by what we see in Islamist countries like Afghanistan, but denying that men and women are different isn’t the answer. God delights in diversity, but that doesn’t mean different value. Men and women are equally unbalanced without each other.

I was fortunately raised by parents who deeply respected each other, so that was the attitude I expected and desired in my own marriage. I have seen many couples where that respect was lacking, and it has been tragic. In the West we tend to focus on romantic love, but all too often that is just a polite way to talk about sex, and that is no foundation for anything. Sex is a beautiful gift that God has given us not only to procreate but to cement the emotional bonds between a husband and wife. However, without the respect Peter mentions, it is hardly up to the task of holding a marriage together. When asked by the professor in a Marriage and Family class in seminary what my expectations were of marriage before I got married, my answer astonished him. He was amazed that I had that image of marriage before ever experiencing it. What I said was, “I expected marriage to be the biggest job of my life, but carry the greatest rewards.” Experience has certainly born that out! It has given me great assurance as I counsel couples before I perform their wedding – as I will be doing this morning. They are generally amazed when I tell them that my wife and I are still in love after 52+ years! I couldn’t begin to enumerate all the things the Lord has taught us, and done for us, through each other, and it is precisely our differences that have been most instrumental in that. Marriage is a grand experience of discovering fulfillment through fulfilling another, and so is the opposite of selfishness. I could obviously go on and on about this, so I’d better stop!

Father, thank You for the magnificent wife You have given me, and for how we have completed each other over the years. I pray that we would continue to grow as You intend, and that our relationship would be an example to all who know us, for their blessing and Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!

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Righteousness; November 5, 2021

Posted on November 7, 2021 by jgarrott

James 5:16 Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful and effective.

This is a justly famous verse, but when we read, “a righteous man,” we tend to eliminate ourselves from the category, and thus feel our prayers aren’t powerful. What we fail to realize is that when we confess our sins and put them under the blood of Christ, from that moment we are righteous. John wrote about it very clearly. “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin. If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” (1 John 1:7-9) Particularly the last part of that gets quoted a lot, but we act like we don’t believe it. When we don’t grasp that we have been made righteous by the blood of Christ, we don’t act righteous. That’s why Peter wrote, “For if you possess these qualities in increasing measure, they will keep you from being ineffective and unproductive in your knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. But if anyone does not have them, he is nearsighted and blind, and has forgotten that he has been cleansed from his past sins.” (2 Peter 1:8-9) That follows a list of qualities you would expect in a righteous person. Self-generated righteousness is no righteousness at all, as Isaiah pointed out. (Isaiah 64:6) Our standing before God, our righteousness, isn’t on the basis of what we have done, for God or for anyone else, but on the basis of what Christ did for us on the cross. When we grasp that and walk in it, then we will have assurance as we pray and God’s power will be manifested.

I don’t know when I first started to realize this, but I know clearly when it really struck home. I had been struggling with a particular sin and couldn’t seem to get free of it, and then the passage from 2 Peter came up, and I had a revelation in my spirit. In that moment I knew that in my flesh I was indeed weak, but that didn’t define me because I was a redeemed child of God, cleansed by the blood of Christ. The release was immediate and marvelous. Frankly, I’m still weak, just as John points out, but I trip up far less, and cleansing is never more than a prayer away. As a pastor I seek to communicate this marvelous truth to others. It’s an essential part of the Gospel! It is when God’s children realize who and what they are in Christ that God’s power operates freely through them, for the destruction of the works of the devil (1 John 3:8) and the glory of God.

Father, thank You for this reminder. Thank You for the freedom and joy of righteousness by faith in Christ. Help me communicate that more and more effectively to more and more people, for their salvation and Your glory. Thank You. Hallelujah!

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Desires; November 4, 2021

Posted on November 7, 2021 by jgarrott

James 4:2-3 You do not have, because you do not ask God. When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.

This issue on the face of it would seem to apply only to the most immature Christians, but it actually applies to just about everyone at times. We often fail to recognize, or at least acknowledge, our own motives. Also, we deceive ourselves as to what our “pleasures” are. We are very complex, and often mixed up, beings. I think that’s a major reason Jesus said, “I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” (Mark 10:15) Children are inherently simple, and our “adult” thinking can put up all sorts of barriers to a right relationship with our heavenly Father. We tend to justify our desires in various ways, but it all comes down to what Jesus said: “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” (Matthew 6:33) As I say frequently, God isn’t stingy, but He isn’t going to give us stuff that doesn’t line up with who He is and what we need to be. He recognizes our physical, material, emotional, and spiritual needs and He meets them abundantly, if we will only submit them, and ourselves, to Him. David grasped this. “Delight yourself in the Lord and he will give you the desires of your heart.” (Psalm 37:4) When our ultimate desire is for God Himself, He takes care of all the rest.

I have experienced God’s supply in abundance, sometimes amazingly, but that doesn’t mean I haven’t sometimes fallen afoul of what James is talking about. It’s entirely possible to seek good things for the wrong reasons, and wrong things for good reasons. I find that I have to come back to what David said, but interpret it in a way that perhaps he didn’t mean. That is, I need to so delight in the Lord Himself that my desires are changed into what He desires. That’s not the same as receiving what I desire, but it’s far better. I want to be so transformed into the likeness of Christ that I desire only what He desires for me. (2 Corinthians 3:18) As that happens, I am not to be passive but actively press into what He has planned for me, whether it’s anything I could have imagined or not. I am certainly not all the way there, but He is faithful even though I’m not. As He has told me, I’m to rest, relax, and rejoice in Him, repenting as called for and delighting to be His instrument for His glory.

Father, thank You for this reminder. Cathy and I were looking at the schedule for the next two months, and it looks increasingly packed. You know what You intend, and I only know the smallest fraction of that. Help me recognize Your guidance and follow it each moment, whether that’s a matter of preparation or execution, so that Your will may be accomplished on Your schedule for Your glory. Thank You. Hallelujah!

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Trials; November 3, 2021

Posted on November 6, 2021 by jgarrott

James 1:2-4 Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.

James was hardly a diplomat. Bluntness was his stock in trade. He was the very opposite of “politically correct,” calling things as he saw them for the benefit of his hearers/readers. The Church needs more like him! Here, having just given a very brief greeting for the sake of indicating his intended audience, he launches right into talking about trials, which many people would rather not talk about. We don’t live in the Roman Empire with its persecutions, but we have brothers and sisters in the Lord who live under the Taliban, or the Chinese Communist Party, or North Korea, and those are certainly no easier situations than what James’ immediate audience faced. That said, trials are not limited to active persecution; every believer faces spiritual warfare in some way. That can make James’ words here seem like a punch in the gut. Consider trials the highest joy? He’s got to be kidding! However, he’s not, and he’s in complete agreement with Paul. “Not only so, but we also rejoice in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.” (Romans 5:3-4) All of that agrees with a famous line from Hebrews: “No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful. Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.” (Hebrews 12:11) The fact of the matter is, by nature we tend to be self-centered wimps, and it can take some pretty hard stuff to work that out of us. We tend to admire elite special forces troops, but we wouldn’t want to go through the training they had to endure to become what they are! However, we don’t get to choose our assignments, and God knows what training we need to be ready for them. What James is talking about involves an awareness that God is training us because He is going to use us. It is that awareness that can make trials “the highest joy,” as the Japanese expresses it. When we go through rough stuff our attitude needs to be, “How is God going to use this? Because for sure He’s going to!”

I well remember my own military training, and the difference it made in me in a number of ways. Some elements of it were actually fun, but a lot of it wasn’t, and I certainly wasn’t Special Forces. In my life in general I have been through all sorts of things, and I can see how God has used them to shape me. In line with what James wrote, I am far more patient than I used to be, better able to endure when the immediate situation is unpleasant. At the same time, I recognize various areas in my personality that could still use a lot of work, so I know I’ve got more trials to look forward to! I’m certainly not to seek out trials, but I am likewise not to run from them. As has been said, the way out is through; going through the rough stuff is how I will get out of it in the end. It is the awareness of God’s love and presence even in the middle of it all that makes it joy.

Father, thank You for this reminder. I feel that my trials are very minor, particularly compared to the physical difficulties Cathy faces all the time. I ask Your comfort, strength, and healing for her, and I ask that You enable me both to be the husband she needs and to learn even from her trials, so that we may both continue to grow in Christ, for Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!

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Sacrificing to God; November 2, 2021

Posted on November 6, 2021 by jgarrott

Hebrews 13:15-16 Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise–the fruit of lips that confess his name. And do not forget to do good and to share with others, for with such sacrifices God is pleased.

Verse 15 was essentially drilled into me when I was first being introduced to the Charismatic Movement, and the sacrifice of praise is indeed a valuable part of our relationship and interaction with God. However, I heard verse 16 referred to far less often. Both praising God and sharing things with others can involve genuine sacrifice, but that isn’t always recognized. It’s easy to praise God when things are going well for you personally and you are in a group meeting with a good band and a gifted worship leader. It’s much harder to praise God when it feels like the world has collapsed on top of you and you can’t see the way out. In that case it can be a genuine sacrifice indeed, but the rewards are immense. King David’s statement in reference to the threshing floor of Araunah is very appropriate: “I will not sacrifice to the Lord my God burnt offerings that cost me nothing.” (2 Samuel 24:24) It is especially true that effortless, rote words can become no sacrifice at all. That said, it is when we get to material things that we really tend to feel the pinch. That’s why verse 16 is far less popular than verse 15, and it’s exactly what David was talking about. Sharing with others can and usually does feel good, but it means we no longer have what we give away. The amount is not the issue. Jesus made that very clear when he saw a destitute widow give God all she had. (Luke 21:1-4) Giving becomes a burden only when we think of it as a zero-sum game, forgetting that God is the Creator and His resources are literally infinite. When we give God praise and give materially to those around us, as giving to God, He is indeed pleased, and we “store up for ourselves treasures in heaven.” (Matthew 6:20)

This certainly applies to me. I love music and I love musical praise and worship, but there have been a few times when I have experienced giving a genuine sacrifice of praise, when I didn’t feel emotionally like praising at all. Likewise, I enjoy meeting people’s needs, and a few times that has come at personal sacrifice, though not at all often. I need to so live my life that it is given to God, whether it is convenient or enjoyable to me at the moment or not. The thing is, I have experienced the blessings of giving to God, in worship and materially, so many times that it no longer feels like a sacrifice! I wonder how that works out? I do know that my God is in no way stingy, and His rewards are limitless. I am to remember that it is quite literally impossible to out-give God, and so give to Him what is appropriate, whether it feels easy or not. Pleasing Him has the ultimate ROI (Return On Investment)!

Father, thank You for Your incredible generosity toward me. May I indeed live a life of praise, having open hands toward those around me, so that You may be pleased and be glorified. Thank You. Praise God!

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Learning Obedience; November 1, 2021

Posted on November 3, 2021 by jgarrott

Hebrews 5:8-10 Although he was a son, he learned obedience from what he suffered and, once made perfect, he became the source of eternal salvation for all who obey him and was designated by God to be high priest in the order of Melchizedek.

We don’t often think of Jesus Christ having to learn things, but here we have it stated clearly – and what He learned was obedience, of all things! We would assume that Jesus was automatically obedient from the moment of His conception, but this is more evidence of His genuine humanity. It’s not that He was disobedient. Deliberate disobedience to God is certainly sin, and Jesus was without sin, as is stated in the chapter before this where it talks about temptation. (Hebrews 4:15) However, Jesus didn’t come from the womb resurrected! He was born, he learned to walk, talk, and become a carpenter like Joseph. There’s a lot of learning involved in becoming a carpenter! Some of the suffering He experienced was probably cuts, bruises and the like picked up in that process. The saying that is common in physical training, “No pain, no gain,” can actually apply very broadly in many areas of life. We want life to be painless, but that’s not the way things are. Just yesterday I was counseling a couple who are already legally married but will be having a wedding this month, and they have a 17-month-old son. I was pointing out that little children don’t understand logic but they do understand pain, and often that has to be applied for the good of the child to help them learn obedience, just as this passage talks about. That’s not a very popular truth in some circles, but the current state of America is in many ways related to that truth having been abandoned a generation or so ago. In no way is genuine child abuse to be condoned, but when a spanking is legally defined as abuse, as it actually is in some areas, the system has gone off the rails. The thing is, the devil doesn’t want us to learn obedience to our parents, and thus to God. Jesus is our ultimate example, and when He had to learn obedience through suffering, we have no room to complain!

My parents didn’t use a great deal of physical discipline that I can remember, but it was during my childhood that Dr. Spock became all the rage when it came to parenting. (In his later years he realized what he had done, and repented rather bitterly of the ideas that he had espoused.) I remember my parents assigning what is currently called a “time out,” making me sit in a chair in the living room with nothing to “entertain” me, supposedly. With my active imagination, I just sat there and created story lines in my head, having actually a rather good time. I remember doing that, and don’t remember for what I was being punished! I certainly didn’t do a perfect job in raising my children (just ask them!) but at least I learned that the “time out” system doesn’t work very well. In the bigger picture, I have learned better obedience to God through various things, some of them seeming more like suffering than others. I am not in a position of causing suffering to others to teach them obedience, but I am in a position of helping them see what God is teaching them through the suffering they experience. I am not to take their suffering lightly. I have caused damage by giving people that impression! However, I am to seek to help them understand that God is not mean, and He never allows us to go through anything that He can’t use for good. (Romans 8:28) I have heard some pretty extreme testimonies to that effect! And, I must always remember that truth in my own life, and give God thanks for everything. (Ephesians 5:20)

Father, thank You for this reminder. I hope it doesn’t mean I’ve got suffering on my horizon! Thank You for the assurance that even if it does, Your plans are good, whatever they look like or feel like at the moment. May Your will be done in my life, whatever that means, for Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!

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Christ’s Intercession; October 31, 2021

Posted on November 2, 2021 by jgarrott

Hebrews 7:25 Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them.

For Gentiles, and even for modern Jews who aren’t used to the sacrificial system, this discussion seems rather arcane. However, for a true student of the Bible, it finally puts the seemingly endless regulations in Leviticus and the like into context. The author of Hebrews (I lean toward that having been Apollos, as in Acts 18:24-28, but there are many different opinions) was obviously a true student of the Old Testament indeed. The whole book is in a sense a commentary on the whole Old Testament, explaining the meaning of the Levitical system, and as such is very valuable. This verse, with its reference to intercession, is obviously why this section appears in a series of readings on prayer, and it is deeply meaningful. We are indeed “once saved always saved,” (as has come up recently again from a Facebook friend’s post) but the reason for that is not that we are faithful, but that Jesus is. If we didn’t keep sinning, He wouldn’t need to keep interceding for us! Thankfully however, He does, as this verse says, so we are secure in Him. We tend to have a very shallow grasp of and appreciation for intercession. Intercession is essentially standing up for the guilty/needy party and saying, “Put that on my tab.” That’s why Jesus is the only Savior, because as both fully man and fully God, He alone has “enough in His account,” so to speak, to take care of the sin debt of all mankind. The continuing nature of His intercession is because we keep sinning! It can be a very difficult concept to grasp, but it is glorious indeed when we allow the Holy Spirit to reveal it to our heart.

I am certainly in need of Christ’s intercession, but then everyone is. My wife Cathy tells me she was very disappointed the first time she realized she had sinned after she had been baptized. In her immaturity she had thought she would never sin again! Paul wrote of his own struggles in Romans 7, and gave the glorious answer to that in the first of the next chapter: “Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set me free from the law of sin and death.” (Romans 8:1-2) Even if you don’t classify them as sins, we are constantly making mistakes. Paul again gloriously deals with the push for perfection in Philippians 3:12-14. The point is, none of that would be possible without Christ standing up for us in heaven, because there is no way we can achieve God’s sinless perfection ourselves. That Christ does intercede for us is an essential part of the Gospel.

Father, thank You for Your incredible, perfect plan. Help me not just revel in it for my own benefit, but communicate it effectively to as many as will receive, for their salvation and Your glory. Thank You. Hallelujah!

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Reward for Ministry; October 30, 2021

Posted on November 2, 2021 by jgarrott

Philemon 1:7 Your love has given me great joy and encouragement, because you, brother, have refreshed the hearts of the saints.

Here we have a record of one of the rewards of pastoral ministry. There is indeed deep joy and encouragement to seeing that someone to whom you have ministered is indeed ministering effectively to others. We don’t know when or how Paul first interacted with Philemon, but the relationship was obviously a warm one. From our current perspective it’s interesting to realize they had that relationship in spite of Philemon being a slave owner. That sort of thing was simply a fact of society in those days, and God used it in beautiful ways that are mentioned and/or hinted at in this letter. That’s not at all to say that slavery is OK; it is completely abhorrent. However, it is to say that we aren’t to focus on everything negative about those to whom we minister, but rather speak and admonish as God directs and leave the results up to Him. After all, if God were to demand perfection, we would be disqualified! Every one of us is dependent on the grace of God in Christ Jesus, and we must never forget that. Frankly, those in ministry need all the joy and encouragement they can get, because the stresses can be quite severe and the spiritual warfare is unrelenting. There is nothing better than to find that you have been effective in ministering to someone, at least.

I have these flashes of joy from time to time as I observe or hear from spiritual children. I had a big one just the other day. I need to keep reminding myself that God knows what is going on in people’s hearts, and I don’t. The fruit of my labors is in His hands, and as Jesus said, the Father has every interest in that fruit being abundant. (John 15:8) At this point I see some younger people in ministry and envy their vigor, but at the same time I recognize that the ripples from my ministry are still expanding. I will never know how far they go, unless God chooses to show me once I’m with Him in heaven. To be honest, I don’t think I’ll be worried about it then! However, He may do it, simply because the ultimate reward is in knowing you have been used effectively by God.

Father, thank You for the various ways You have used me, and for the joy of realizing that You have done so. I pray that I would be ever more available, instantly responsive to Your leading and not running off on tangents. Thank You for the reminder just yesterday that some of my ministry is still in progress, and the fruit will come later. Help me have the patience I need as I rest, relax, and rejoice in You, for Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!

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Pleasure; October 29, 2021

Posted on October 31, 2021 by jgarrott

1 Timothy 5:6 But the widow who lives for pleasure is dead even while she lives.

Paul is talking about widows here, but this statement could apply to anyone, and a lot of people would fit into this category. God created us to be able to enjoy a lot of things, and thus there are many kinds of pleasure. The Japanese expression used in this verse is specifically talking about physical, sensual pleasure. It is quite possible for such pleasure to be pure, but only in the right context, and the devil does all he can to tempt us with it out of context. That said, we can’t blame the devil for our sins. As James says, “Each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” (James 1:14-15) That’s what Paul is talking about here: people who nurture and delight in their physical desires to the point of sin, producing spiritual death even while the person is still walking around. This is in stark contrast to what Jesus said to Martha after her brother Lazarus’ death: “I am the resurrection and the life. He who believes in me will live, even though he dies; and whoever lives and believes in me will never die.” (John 11:25-26) We have the choice: death even while our bodies are alive, or life even when our bodies die. All of this is in no way to forbid pleasure. As I said, God created us to be able to enjoy a lot of things, but when we place those pleasures ahead of knowing and delighting in Him, we are in dangerous territory. I have a book entitled Intended for Pleasure, by a Christian doctor and his wife, Ed and Gaye Wheat, that is about sex in the Biblical context of marriage. Some people feel guilty about desiring and enjoying physical pleasure even in that context, but that too is a distortion encouraged by the devil. We are to receive what God has provided with gratitude and delight, but it is a matter of priorities and submission to God. What is deadly, as Paul says, is placing the pleasure first, displacing God from His rightful position in our heart.

After over 52 years of very pleasurable marriage, I’ve got a lot of background in this area! That said, I am not immune to misplaced priorities myself. I too need to keep my focus on my Lord, making the use He intends of everything He provides. I do a good bit of marriage counseling, mostly of couples before I perform their wedding, and I touch on this issue. However, most of those couples aren’t believers, so the full context is missing. Even so, I seek to speak the truth in love so that they may be insulated against some of the common tricks of the devil. As I caution them, society today is saturated with sex, and they need strong commitment to each other to stand firm in the storm. It’s much easier when you’re standing on the Rock, Christ Jesus!

Father, thank You indeed for Your gracious design. May I not only follow it myself, but help others in doing so as well, so that we may walk in life and not death, for Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!

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