Luke 14:27 “And whoever does not carry their cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.”
This is a part of Jesus’ teaching that most Christians like to ignore! Particularly in places like the US, comfort is a very high priority, and people rebel at being asked to sacrifice for their faith. The verse ahead of this, about hating your own family, applies particularly in cultures where you are likely to be disowned for claiming Jesus. We aren’t to be haters, actually, but our devotion must be to Jesus, first and foremost. Sacrifices aren’t to be complained about, but to be grateful for, just as the apostles rejoiced that they were found “worthy to suffer disgrace for the Name.” (Acts 5:41) Disgrace, or at least social disapproval, is very much a possibility, even in the US. If we value the approval of people over the approval of God, we are indeed not fit to be Jesus’ disciples.
My mother, who became a missionary in 1935, said that the only real sacrifice she felt she had made was proximity to family. That’s right in keeping with this passage, and marked her as a genuine disciple. Actually, she gave up a lot, including separation from my father, from the spring of 1941, when she and my oldest sister were sent to the US because of rising tensions, until he was repatriated on a prisoner exchange ship in 1942. I don’t feel that I have given up much of anything, since I get to live and serve in the land of my birth, Japan, and have been blessed with a magnificent wife and admirable children and grandchildren. At issue is the constant pressure to compromise, to take the easy way out instead of walking in full obedience all the time. Right now, I’m doing my devotions in a rather cramped economy seat on a full flight that left at 5 am, but that’s a very minor sacrifice compared to what my brothers and sisters in the Lord are going through in China, for example, not to mention Nigeria. I am not to take anything for granted, but operate in consistent gratitude, praise, and obedience, so that God may be glorified in and through me.
Father, thank You for enabling us to make this trip, and for all You’re allowing us to go through in the process. Help me learn the lessons You have for me and continue to grow as You intend, accomplishing Your purposes on Your schedule for Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!