1 Peter 4:10 Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms.
The things expressed in this verse are central to being a successful disciple of Jesus Christ. In the first place, we have to recognize that we are gifted. Far too many people don’t consider themselves to be gifted at all, and so they feel no responsibility for using their gift, or gifts. Peter is very clear that each person has received at least one gift, so that puts our lifestyle into the category of stewardship. Different translations put different degrees of stress on it, but Peter says clearly that there is a lot of variety in God’s gifts. Too often we expect, or even demand, that other people be like us, and are offended, puzzled, or even angry that they don’t respond to things the way we do. It’s not at all a “your truth, my truth,” sort of thing, because God’s truth is absolute, but it is a recognition that variety is part of who God is. The other thing in this verse is the purpose of the gifts God gives: to serve one another. We are far too likely to consider our gifts ours, for our own pleasure and aggrandizement. No gift is fully realized unless it is used in service to God and His children. Interestingly, one of the best known of the spiritual gifts is seldom recognized as being in this category, and that is the gift of tongues. It is true that praying in tongues builds up the person who is so praying. (Jude 1:20) However, speaking in tongues is prayer and praise, and properly used, those bless others and glorify God whatever language is being used. We encounter countless situations that call for prayer, because we can’t or don’t know how to impact them directly. Praying in tongues allows the Holy Spirit to pray what is appropriate, even when we have no idea what that might be. Coupled with the gift of interpretation, tongues may function as prophecy, though there is question as to whether that is what is happening or whether the “interpretation” is God’s reply to what was prayed in tongues. In any case, every gift of God is to build up the Body of Christ, which is composed of all the people who have been saved by grace through faith. We may be sure we want to do that, but specific individuals can really get under our skin! We can’t rightly withhold the exercise of our gifts in relation to anyone. We need to recognize that we are at least as much in need of God’s grace and forgiveness as they are!
I of course need to remember this for myself, just as much as I need to impart this understanding to others. The Lord has gifted me in various ways, and I am to use every one of those gifts in service to those around me. God doesn’t need my service, but He wants to use me to bless others of His children, and I must not decline to do that. It is always a blessing to me to realize that I have been an instrument of blessing to someone else. Selfishness is one of the devil’s favorite traps, and I must be careful to avoid it. I am as prone to descend into “I my me mine” as anyone else, and I must be on my guard. I am not to neglect myself, because good stewardship involves my own health and wellbeing, but my focus is to be first on my Lord and then on the people around me. As the acronym Jesus, Others, Yourself proclaims, that is indeed the way to JOY.
Father, thank You for this reminder. Thank You for the privilege of serving You through serving others. May I be a faithful steward on every level, so that You may be pleased as Your will is done through me, for Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!