2 Timothy 2:24-25 And the Lord’s servant must not be quarrelsome but must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Opponents must be gently instructed, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth.

This is important instruction for anyone in a position of church leadership. Had this been followed better, there would probably be far fewer denominations at this point! Paul isn’t saying not to have convictions, by any means, but he is saying not to have a chip on your shoulder. Some people seem to always be primed for an argument! The more convinced you are that you are on the side of God’s truth, the more gentle you should be, because God’s truth will always prevail. In the short term, sometimes you have to agree to disagree, without sacrificing your own fellowship with God in His truth. Pride is a big factor here, and that is always a problem. When we know without question that we are on the side of God’s truth, then we don’t have to defend our position in our own strength and wisdom. All we have to do is speak that truth in love, not to defend ourselves, but in grace and mercy toward the person who doesn’t want to accept that truth.

This is something I have had to struggle with from time to time. When I get defensive, I should recognize that pride has inserted itself into the situation, and that’s never good. I need to remember how Jesus was before His accusers, both Jews and Romans. He went through hell, literally, but He came through on the other side in the greatest victory in all history. I’m never in such consequential situations as that, but if I will abide in Him, I will share in His victory. I don’t have to “come out on top” in every disagreement. The drive for that is strictly pride. Sometimes I’m the one who needs to be corrected! I need to remember that God is the only one who is always right, and be peacefully submitted to Him.

Father, thank You for this reminder. Thank You for Your grace in some of my recent interactions with people with whom I have very strong disagreements. Help me always speak Your truth in love, not from pride but in gratitude for Your grace, so that Your truth may conquer all the lies of the enemy, for the salvation of many and for Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!