John 18:23 “If I said something wrong,” Jesus replied, “testify as to what is wrong. But if I spoke the truth, why did you strike me?”

Two things stand out to me in this exchange. One is the incredible gentleness, self-control, and simple reasonableness of Jesus’ response to being slapped in the face. The other is how typical the action of the official who struck him was. People who run out of reasonable, logical arguments to defend their position often resort to violence of one sort or another. We see this all the time, and it’s reported in news from around the world. This is actually a major cause of wars, and on a lesser scale, we’re seeing it in US politics almost daily. The challenge for the Christian is to respond as Jesus did! It takes a special anointing of the Holy Spirit not to lash back, but that anointing comes to those who have first made the choice to receive it. This is not to say that pacifism is always the answer. Jesus Himself got notably physical when He cleared the Court of the Gentiles of those who were desecrating it. (John 2:13-17) The point is that there, Jesus was not defending Himself, He was standing up on behalf of those who were being kept from worshiping God by those consumed with greed. Sometimes strong, forceful action is called for, but we must remember that God is our defense.

I have never been particularly violent physically, but I have certainly struck out at people verbally. That too is not trusting God. I am not to be a doormat, but neither am I to be on the offense against anyone but the devil. Jesus’ example here isn’t an easy one to follow, but I must be consistent in my choice to do so, by the help of the Spirit within me. My attempts to defend myself have consistently gotten me into more trouble than I was in in the first place! It has been very difficult for me that in this culture, simply explaining your actions is often taken as making excuses. That has nearly triggered a violent reaction in me a few times! Again and always I must remember that God is my defense, and rest and trust Him in that. As Paul said, it matters very little what people think of me, because I’m living for God’s approval. (1 Corinthians 4:3-4)

Father, thank You again for Your patience toward me. Help me be patient with those around me, and with myself. Thank You for the assurance I have of Your love and protection. Help me operate in that assurance more and more, so that I won’t get defensive but will respond to people with Your love and grace, for their blessing and Your glory. Thank You. Praise God!